Let's see... I was
born in the first half of the 20th Century. Harry Truman was President,
gasoline cost 17 cents a gallon,
the USSR tested it's first Atomic Bomb, The Communist Peoples Republic of
China was declared by Mao Tse Tung.
Rodgers and Hammerstein opened a new musical on Broadway... 'South Pacific'.
Bruce Springsteen was 2 weeks old.
Actually, it was less than three months before it
stopped being the first half and became the
second half...
technically it still was the first half... October 8th 1949
to be exact.
Think of three
channels of black and white television that wasn't even broadcasting
during the night
KDKA, WTAE, and WIIC, (WQED would not begin to broadcast until April
1st, 1954.) Did I mention it was black and white?
No MTV or any of
that, can't complain about no FOX News though (learned to think on
my own).
also no Jerry Springer or 'Housewives of...', no C-Span either
though.
I watched The
Howdy Doody Show, Kraft Masterpiece Theatre, Milton Berle, The
Honeymooners, and I Love Lucy....
When they originally aired... live. Early television
did not have the luxury of being on tape, there was no video-tape.
Everything from the news to your favorite weekly comedy or variety
show was done in real time.
You made a mistake and the entire country saw it.
I survived with
things called 'books' (seems it's some sort of a 'non-volatile
storage medium')
Loved adventure stories, 'Captain Blood', 'Scaramouche',
'Master-at-Arms' and anything else Raffael Sabatini wrote.
"The Three Musketeers', 'Les Miserables', and 'Tintin' were my
companions along with 'The Illiad' and 'The Oddesy'.
The works of Jules Verne, Victor Hugo, H. G. Wells, and Mary Renault
('The Bull from the Sea').
The Adventures
of Tintin

Wonderful
drawings in a 'comic book' style.
The author, Herge, never just 'drew a car'. It would be a particular
car and accurate to the smallest detail.
Now we have 'Beavis and Butthead' and 'Squidbillies'. Why did I
waste time in art school?
Soon to be a
movie, the CGI actors certainly look the part...
Oh, and
'Tom Swift Jr.'!
Not to be confused with 'Tom
Swifties' such as:
"Who would want to steal modern art?" asked Tom abstractedly.
You know...
'Tom Swift and his Flying Lab.'
'Tom Swift and his Atomic Earth Blaster.
'Tom Swift in the Caves of Nuclear Fire.''
and my
favorite...

What
red-blooded 11 year old would not want a car that could not only
drive
but could travel on (and under) the ocean and fly to boot!
Wikipedia's
entry.
Not great literature but a lot of
fun when you are 11 years old!
I also read biographies, history,
and pretty much anything I could get my hands on. We played in
the dirt, literally.
There were no game consoles, personal computers, cell phones...
Hell, if you had a wrist-watch it had hands on it!
No one knew anybody who couldn't
drink milk, or eat wheat... there was the rare person who was
allergic to strawberries.
Neighborhoods were safe and you could play outside all day without
needing to have a GPS chip embedded in your ass.
You darn well better be home by the time the street-lights came on
though!
Grade-school was a waste of time,
I never would have heard of Charles Darwin and the Theory of
Evolution if I had not read about it myself, history stopped at 1945
with no mention of what happened in the intervening 20 years,
nothing about Korea or Viet-Nam or the Civil-Rights movement. There
was time, however, to go over the lives of the saints in detail.
Getting beat up after school seemed to be a weekly happening.
Summers were spent at my
Grandmother's in Wilmerding (just over the hill from my parents home
in Turtle Creek), we played outside with games we made up along with
'tag' although we called it 'It'. Packing a sandwich and an
army-surplus canteen full of water we roamed the 'hills'. They
were good times.
High School was a pretty lonely time, I was neither a Jock nor a
Geek so did not belong to any particular clique.
Graduation was the best part because that meant it was over.
Your in the army now... Summer of
1968.
Ever since I was 10 years old and
developed a seizure disorder (probably from the trauma of getting
hit in the forehead by a baseball-bat,) all I ever heard was 'you
can't go out for sports', 'You can't go on the outing', 'You can't.
You can't, You can't'...
So I enlisted... I spent the next 3 years as a 97D20 (intelligence
coordinator). I finished my tour with 14 months in Viet-Nam.
Why 14 months instead of 12 months? Well, again reading served me
well. Seems there was an AR (army regulation) that stated if you
returned to CONUS (Continental United States) from a short-tour with
less than 150 days of service obligation remaining you would be
discharged. So I went to the personnel office and extended my tour
for 66 days. I could have gotten away with a 65 day extension but I
did not want to get messed up by the international dateline. It was
1971...
1971... It was an important year
for me. I was finally living on my own, and had my first m2m
experience.
It was also a confusing year for me, Stonewall was still a few years
in the future and being gay was not an 'acceptable life'.
Public acceptance was as rare then as it is today in a bible
belt/conservative bastion state. Over the next two decades I tried
to convince myself it was just experimentation, something I could
'outgrow'... I got married to a girl I went to college with.
I do not regret that because I would never have had my son or my
grandchildren.
To backtrack a bit I made an
attempt at College and flunked out. I wasn't ready yet after
Viet-Nam, I partied way too much and finished my first semester with
what may be a record for lowest GPA. Seems in college actually going
to class is considered important. When I finally buckled down I was
admitted to The University of Pittsburgh as a Junior having 'tested
out' my first two years. It was in my Senior year that I married. I
tried to make things work but I was still who I was and finally
sought out male companionship after living like a monk for almost
two decades.
My ex-wife and I probably get
along better now than we did then and my son has grown up into a
fine man who cares about people more than just accumulating money.
Flash forward to the mid 1990's...
1996 to the present...
(To be
continued)
Under Construction

"It is the mark of an
educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting
it."
-Aristotle
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